In today’s times it is not very easy to keep a relationship going strong for a practically long time. It is actually quite difficult for people to hold on to a person for a long stretch of time, because relationships do come with problems. Often we feel that it is compulsory to work too hard on it, or give a lot of space to the partner. But, over-doing it will not be of any help. There are certain rules in a relationship that one must follow. Being happy is the only way to keep the other person happy.
Scheduling a specific time for yourself
The days of the ever-sacrificing partner are over. It is time to think practically over everything. Men and women are equally busy with their jobs and their lives. It is very important to take out some time for yourself and pamper yourself. Sticking to your partner for maximum part of the day eventually becomes one of the reasons for break-up. After returning from work, do not always hold the compulsion to be with your partner or go meet him. Rather one should give the other some space and enjoy the time by oneself. Just sitting in a corner and reading a book, or watching your favorite show on TV while munching your favorite edibles, will make you a better person from inside. For men, there are obviously ‘find your escort’ services.
Throwing surprises
It is true that not all people like surprises and there are a few who truly get annoyed with surprises. But, that is mostly because often surprises are too extravagant and unexpected. Doing small things for your partner, which she/he is in dire need of, but cannot express, make great surprises. Throwing a surprise birthday party or simply planning a romantic dinner date can speak thousand words about your relationship. One in a while you can buy him/her some expensive gifts or cook something nice for them. Relationships grow thick because of these.
Bidding good-bye to your ego
Ego destroys a relationship. When two people are in a relationship together, there should be no space for ego. There is no harm in saying sorry if one is at fault. Keeping up pent up feelings and hoping that the other person will take the first step, actually does not help. Thus, people who really care for their relationship with the other person and give it precedence than their ego, are able to keep themselves as well as the other person happy. Humility and selflessness is all that is needed to make a relationship work for a longer stretch.
Respect for each other’s family
One’s family is very important for him/her. If you want respect for yourself and your family members from the other person, you should also be showing love and respect for her/his family. In order to grow close to the person and understand him, it is important to bond with his family members and create a good impression for yourself among them.